Alumni spotlight: Rex Wheeler 

At the School, we are proud to nurture our young people into artists—whether they go on to join a company and continue to dance, or forge their own path outside of ballet, we hope that we’ve equipped them with the tools to be confident and determined in whatever they do.  

One of our alumnus, Rex Wheeler, is a perfect example of our students going beyond ballet. Rex discovered drag while living in San Francisco and fell in love. Rex made it onto RuPaul’s Drag Race, and during his time, he filmed a docu-fiction film Lady Like which follows the story of Rex Wheeler and his drag persona, Lady Camden, as they work together to save Rex’s inner child. 

We caught up with Rex about his experience as a student, as a professional, and his discovery of drag and the creation of Lady Camden.  

Photograph of Lady Camden taken by Maximillian Tortoriello

When did you first start dancing? 

I started when I was 11 or 12. After dancing for a few years, I wanted to audition for White Lodge. My dance teacher thought it was too soon and that I didn’t have the feet but when someone tells me I can’t do something, I think, I’ll show you! She saw how determined I was, and that I was improving quickly, she gave me some extra help in the studio, and I entered the School in Year 10. 

What was it like to go from a state secondary school to White Lodge? 

I went to a rough school in North London. It wasn’t a place where an aspiring ballet dancer who is queer and skinny felt at ease. I didn’t tell anybody I was going to ballet school because I knew I would be bullied for it. When I got into White Lodge, it was a sigh of relief because I knew I was going to an environment where I would be able to enjoy being a dancer with other people who geek out about ballet. I still remember the final audition at White Lodge, driving through a frosty Richmond Park and it was so magical. 

After White Lodge, I went to Elmhurst for three years with one of my best friends from The Royal Ballet School, Jade Heusen. We were Head Boy and Head Girl. I was the worst Head Boy ever, avoiding all responsibility! After that, Jade went to Birmingham Royal Ballet and I went to Slovak National Ballet, Sacramento Ballet and Smuin Contemporary Ballet. 

What was your experience like in those companies? 

I loved it because it’s what you dream of in school. It’s fun being part of a bigger entity and getting opportunities to dance bigger roles as time goes on. At Sacramento, they had a choreographic workshop for company dancers every year. We also did a lot of American repertoire there, including Balanchine. There was emphasis on musicality, dynamics and energy which opened my mind to play with classical musical differently. 

I was with them for five years but wanted to explore contemporary styles so went to Smuin Contemporary Ballet in San Francisco, which is a fabulous city especially for someone openly queer. The company is small, only 16 dancers, so it was a lot of dancing but unfortunately, I had a recurring injury. When you’re injured, it forces you to think about other avenues and I knew I wanted to explore my creativity, so I started to pursue choreography. I have a great relationship with Smuin, choreographing and staging works for them which is what I’m doing after this London trip. 

How did drag come into your life? 

I didn’t expect it. When I was at school, I thought I’d be a bunhead forever – classical ballet until I die! As I got older, I realised there was more in my heart and mind than being a silent dancer. I knew I needed to grow and do something scary or wild, whilst still performing. When I was injured, there was a chunk of time where I was healing, and I would play with makeup. Then I started to go to drag shows in San Francisco. I needed something to take the depressing injury out of my brain and get some joy from letting go, and those gay clubs with drag performances saved me out of that funk. 

Once my injury healed, I would sneak into the clubs in drag and they’d ask if I was a performer. I’d lie, get on stage and do pirouettes and kick my legs around. They thought it was amazing because it was something different to the other acts. I became competitive with myself and focused on getting better until I was able to make a living off it and transition out of performing in a company. 

How did you go about creating your drag act, Lady Camden? 

Lady Camden is always evolving. She can be regal but also an 80s popstar dressed in neon. I take the artistry of what I do seriously though. I want my act to have soul, and I appreciate taking the time to thoughtfully craft the act. 

My love of ballet also comes into it. Whenever I want to be regal and refined, I think about Marianela Núñez and the dancers I love. On Drag Race, I created a tutu inspired by sets of The Nutcracker which I recently showed Monica Mason!  

Why did you decide to apply for Ru Paul’s Drag Race USA? Tell us about the experience. 

I’ve always been a fan of the show, and I had finally got to a place where I was making a living from drag but then the pandemic hit and there was no work. I was teaching ballet and acting on Zoom which I enjoyed but I had to support that with work in retail and restaurants and I honestly hated it. I missed creating and performing. I auditioned for Drag Race, my third time auditioning for the show, and I got it. 

You made it to the final two? 

I think that was down to my ballet background. I’m used to being compared to my peers and I’ve learnt not only physical strength but how to be smart with my body, how to be patient with progression, how to take care of my brain and emotions and how to keep my eye on the prize even when there are knock-backs. You need the drive and self-belief you can do something against everything else telling you, you can’t. You learn whether you love something when you get knock-backs and how much you’re willing to fight for something that you love. 

Tell us about your documentary Lady Like and how that come about? 

During my season of Drag Race, I was creating fun content to post on my social media, making dance videos which were theatrical and had an element of storytelling to them. I was working on them with former Soloist with San Francisco Ballet, Luke Willis. He resonated with my own personal story where home life was heavy at times, but ballet was a sanctuary, and he wanted to document how the Drag Race experience would impact my life. In the documentary, Luke explores fame. It’s interesting when you’re exposed to the public how people express their opinions of you as if they know you. I quickly developed the strength to not care about criticism and be my own cheerleader. 

How do you define success? 

When I was a teenager, I saw success as linear. I thought, if I don’t get into Upper School and The Royal Ballet, then I wouldn’t be successful. I’ve learnt over the past 20 years that success isn’t always going to look exactly how I thought it would. I never thought I would be a drag queen. Success is whatever sets your soul on fire and makes you excited to wake up. Follow that feeling, it may not look the same to your peers’ version of success but it’s how something you’re doing makes you feel. 

Are there any changes you would like to see in the dance or performing industries? 

I think mental health support is a big one. I come from a generation where there wasn’t a focus on that. While I was on Drag Race, they provided a therapist to help with the experience and it was helpful because I had a lot of self-doubt, and they were instrumental in building my confidence to reach the final. 

Another thing is the heteronormative values in ballet. I see both sides of the conversation, I understand the importance of tradition and I’m not talking about taking away the joy of romance between a man and a woman on stage in ballet. As a gay man, when I was in a ballet company, I felt I would get more roles, especially when it came to the casting of the Prince in productions, if I looked and acted more masculine. I think seeing more diversity is important in the classical ballet world and something we need to keep pushing for. 

Lady Like is now available to stream, find out where you can rent or buy it.